Body language decoder part IV

In bed together

* He sleeps facedown: Studs who sleep on their stomachs have passion and energy. He's a hands-on guy who tends to be punctual and successful. One caveat: His propensity to hog the bed space with his sprawling position suggests he might be a tad controlling.

* His kisses and oral action are super-soft: He's a little nervous about how to woo you. It's not that he lacks interest, just that he's being more sweet than sexy in an attempt to prove his gentlemanliness.

* During intercourse, he maintains eye contact with you: He's into you. When a guy locks eyes during sex, even for a few seconds, he wants more than just a physical connection.

* He's into missionary sex: Men who prefer missionary tend to do things by the book, making them faithful, loving boyfriends who wont let you down. If you like stability ands tenderness, he's your match.

* He prefers woman-on-top sex: These playful guys are always looking to have a good time, but they still know how to be attentive. Pleasing you is a priority, which is why they prefer a position that best allows you to achieve orgasm.

* He likes side-by-side sex: Men who like the closeness of side-by-side sex tend to need reassurance of a woman's feelings for them. This sexual stance provides a lot of intimacy, which would indicate that he's the sensitive and sweet type.

* He likes sex from behind: You'll always feel looked after by this confident, take-charge guy. Still, he can be standoffish at times. In this position, you can't make eye contact, so he wont feel like he's exposing himself emotionally.

* He sleeps in the fetal position: The scrunched-up snoozer is vulnerable and sensitive. After all, he's guarding his heart. He might cling to a pillow for security. As such, he needs assurance that his feelings are reciprocated before he gives himself completely in a relationship.

* He rolls away or onto his back postbooty: Whenever you rotate your body 90 degrees from someone, you double the space between you. So he's cutting himself off from you and creating distance, both physically and emotionally. Extend a new bedmate some slack though he may just not know how to give you the closeness you desire.

* He gives you a back rub: Consider this a two-for-one seduction. Men respond to visual things and women are more tactile, so a massage is his way of pleasing both of you. He's turning himself on by checking out your body while also making you feel good. This dude is into sensual delights, so return the favor with some stroking of your own.

* He's a spooner: Although this confident guy is a clearly crazy about you, he also may be a bit possessive. How can you tell? in this dominant position, his body is enveloping yours he's literally all over you. On the other hand, if your man pushes into you so that you're curled up behind him, he's a little needy and wants to be taken care of by you.

* He sets the mood: If he's the type who butters you up by lighting candles and putting on music, you're psyched. A man who goes the extra mile to create an atmosphere is sensitive and understands what makes a women tick. Expect him to focus on pleasing you with a lot of foreplay. Although soft-and-sweet sex session are nice, if you want to get down and dirty sometimes, you may have to direct the action.