On the rocks
* He shifts in his chair or taps his fingers: These nervous ticks may make it seem like he's just plain nervous, but if they're done while he's explaining himself to you, they actually indicate that he could be fibbing.
* He toys with his ears or his nose: If your guy starts toying with his ears or nose (and he doesnt have allergies), be suspicious. When a guy is being deceptive, its common for blood to rush to his face. His nose and ears will get warm and begin to itch, causing him to unconsciously rub or scratch them.
* His kiss is yawn-worthy: If he's scoping the scene while he's planting one on you in public, his mind is on other things.
* He looks up and to the left: The next time you ask him a sticky question or he wants to explain himself to you, notice which way he looks. If his eyes move up to the right, he''s recalling information from his memory. If he looks up to the left, there's a good chance that he's inventing the answer.
* He has a limp handhold: This lackluster approach to connecting physically can be a sign he's trying to pull away emotionally too.
* He averts his eyes: Because animosity is so hard to conceal, your guy will reduce eye contact he's subconsciously aware that one peek into his peepers will reveal his inner grrr. For a clue as to whether he's miffed at you or someone else, look into his eyes (since he wont look into yours). If he stares you down the second you catch his gaze, you're probably the object of his ire.
* His jaw is tense: Check out the spot where his jaw meets his cheekbone. If his mouth is rigid and you can see his jaw flexing, it's a sign he's fuming.
* He clenches his fists: Unconsciously making fists is a common sign of a temper that's teetering on blowing. It's a conditioned reflex for men to prepare for a fight when they're angry.
* He covers his mouth with his hand: This guy is probably lying. When he unconsciously obstructs your view of his lips, its a sign that he's trying to block the truth from slipping out. In addition, he might lick his lips and look away from you - directing his eyes down and to the right.
* He turns his cheek mid-convo: Occasionally averting his eyes or scanning the room is normal, but if you find yourself talking mostly to his profile, you're in trouble.
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Friday, March 7, 2008
Body language decoder part IV
In bed together
* He sleeps facedown: Studs who sleep on their stomachs have passion and energy. He's a hands-on guy who tends to be punctual and successful. One caveat: His propensity to hog the bed space with his sprawling position suggests he might be a tad controlling.
* His kisses and oral action are super-soft: He's a little nervous about how to woo you. It's not that he lacks interest, just that he's being more sweet than sexy in an attempt to prove his gentlemanliness.
* During intercourse, he maintains eye contact with you: He's into you. When a guy locks eyes during sex, even for a few seconds, he wants more than just a physical connection.
* He's into missionary sex: Men who prefer missionary tend to do things by the book, making them faithful, loving boyfriends who wont let you down. If you like stability ands tenderness, he's your match.
* He prefers woman-on-top sex: These playful guys are always looking to have a good time, but they still know how to be attentive. Pleasing you is a priority, which is why they prefer a position that best allows you to achieve orgasm.
* He likes side-by-side sex: Men who like the closeness of side-by-side sex tend to need reassurance of a woman's feelings for them. This sexual stance provides a lot of intimacy, which would indicate that he's the sensitive and sweet type.
* He likes sex from behind: You'll always feel looked after by this confident, take-charge guy. Still, he can be standoffish at times. In this position, you can't make eye contact, so he wont feel like he's exposing himself emotionally.
* He sleeps in the fetal position: The scrunched-up snoozer is vulnerable and sensitive. After all, he's guarding his heart. He might cling to a pillow for security. As such, he needs assurance that his feelings are reciprocated before he gives himself completely in a relationship.
* He rolls away or onto his back postbooty: Whenever you rotate your body 90 degrees from someone, you double the space between you. So he's cutting himself off from you and creating distance, both physically and emotionally. Extend a new bedmate some slack though he may just not know how to give you the closeness you desire.
* He gives you a back rub: Consider this a two-for-one seduction. Men respond to visual things and women are more tactile, so a massage is his way of pleasing both of you. He's turning himself on by checking out your body while also making you feel good. This dude is into sensual delights, so return the favor with some stroking of your own.
* He's a spooner: Although this confident guy is a clearly crazy about you, he also may be a bit possessive. How can you tell? in this dominant position, his body is enveloping yours he's literally all over you. On the other hand, if your man pushes into you so that you're curled up behind him, he's a little needy and wants to be taken care of by you.
* He sets the mood: If he's the type who butters you up by lighting candles and putting on music, you're psyched. A man who goes the extra mile to create an atmosphere is sensitive and understands what makes a women tick. Expect him to focus on pleasing you with a lot of foreplay. Although soft-and-sweet sex session are nice, if you want to get down and dirty sometimes, you may have to direct the action.
* He sleeps facedown: Studs who sleep on their stomachs have passion and energy. He's a hands-on guy who tends to be punctual and successful. One caveat: His propensity to hog the bed space with his sprawling position suggests he might be a tad controlling.
* His kisses and oral action are super-soft: He's a little nervous about how to woo you. It's not that he lacks interest, just that he's being more sweet than sexy in an attempt to prove his gentlemanliness.
* During intercourse, he maintains eye contact with you: He's into you. When a guy locks eyes during sex, even for a few seconds, he wants more than just a physical connection.
* He's into missionary sex: Men who prefer missionary tend to do things by the book, making them faithful, loving boyfriends who wont let you down. If you like stability ands tenderness, he's your match.
* He prefers woman-on-top sex: These playful guys are always looking to have a good time, but they still know how to be attentive. Pleasing you is a priority, which is why they prefer a position that best allows you to achieve orgasm.
* He likes side-by-side sex: Men who like the closeness of side-by-side sex tend to need reassurance of a woman's feelings for them. This sexual stance provides a lot of intimacy, which would indicate that he's the sensitive and sweet type.
* He likes sex from behind: You'll always feel looked after by this confident, take-charge guy. Still, he can be standoffish at times. In this position, you can't make eye contact, so he wont feel like he's exposing himself emotionally.
* He sleeps in the fetal position: The scrunched-up snoozer is vulnerable and sensitive. After all, he's guarding his heart. He might cling to a pillow for security. As such, he needs assurance that his feelings are reciprocated before he gives himself completely in a relationship.
* He rolls away or onto his back postbooty: Whenever you rotate your body 90 degrees from someone, you double the space between you. So he's cutting himself off from you and creating distance, both physically and emotionally. Extend a new bedmate some slack though he may just not know how to give you the closeness you desire.
* He gives you a back rub: Consider this a two-for-one seduction. Men respond to visual things and women are more tactile, so a massage is his way of pleasing both of you. He's turning himself on by checking out your body while also making you feel good. This dude is into sensual delights, so return the favor with some stroking of your own.
* He's a spooner: Although this confident guy is a clearly crazy about you, he also may be a bit possessive. How can you tell? in this dominant position, his body is enveloping yours he's literally all over you. On the other hand, if your man pushes into you so that you're curled up behind him, he's a little needy and wants to be taken care of by you.
* He sets the mood: If he's the type who butters you up by lighting candles and putting on music, you're psyched. A man who goes the extra mile to create an atmosphere is sensitive and understands what makes a women tick. Expect him to focus on pleasing you with a lot of foreplay. Although soft-and-sweet sex session are nice, if you want to get down and dirty sometimes, you may have to direct the action.
Thursday, March 6, 2008
body language decoder part III
At seriously involved
* He sweeps a strand of hair out of your face while gazing into your eyes: When this is done in public, it's a declaration of your togeterness. In private , it's a way to say silently, ''I want to take care of you.'' Ditto when you run your digits through his strands. Why? This affectionate move stems back to evolution. Many primates care for each others by tending to each other's fur, so stroking your lover's locks is an instintual way to show fondness.
* He gives you big hugs: This cuddler is a take-charge man who is focused on pampering and protecting. He'll look after you in whatever way he can, whether it's stepping in to handle a stressful situation or just being a shoulder to cry on. Equally as dominating between the sheets, he may not let you pick the position. Still, your pleasure is his number one priority, since that's taking care of you in a different but important way.
* He mirrors your movements: Zero in on the gestures you make when you and your guy are together. It may seem like coincidence, but if the second you cross your legs or reach upward to stretch, he does too, it means you're totally in sync. It's a way of showing that you're like-minded, which gives you the warm feeling of safety and security that's an important aspect of love.
* You watch each other walk away: When long-term couples still gaze at each other as they part ways, it shows they're beyond enamored because they dont take each other for granted, and they even feel a sexy sense of separation anxiety. A lingering glance indicates that you want to relish and extend the connection. It's as if you're trying to make a mental snapshot of each other until the next time you see that person. You know you're probably going to cross paths again in a couple hours or minutes, but you're still counting down the seconds until you can be together.
* He bear-hugs you good-bye: A guy who frequently says good-bye with a bear hug is comfortable with showing you the love. He's confident about the relationship and his future with you. A total-body squeeze is his subconscious way of letting you know he's committed. Another bonus: he probably tells you often how he feels.
* He pinches your butt: Couples who use this flirtatiuos move know how to get each other's attention in a sexy way. It's a spontaneous, playful gesture that says, ''hey, remember me?'' The teasing aspect of this tweak shows confidence in the other's feelings not only are you both secure enough to boldly ask for little sugar when you want it, but you're also positive that your lusty request will be fulfilled.
* You sit superclose in social settings: Quickclose your eyes and envision how you and your guy sit when you're not with friends. If you always sit side by side, you are each other's support system. Anthropologically, it goes back to battle behavior, where you want your comrade by your side to face the enemy. That isn't to say you're not tight with your pals; it just shows that you feel tighter with your man. Plus, the body contact you make (touching elbows and thighs) is a way of staying bonded.
* He does the cup 'n' smooch: Cupping your partner's face in your hands is a sign of strong feelings. Its not something you decide to do; it just happens with an outpouring of emotion. Often experienced in private, this sexy smooch style is an ultraromantic way to connect and tune out the world.
* You're happy to lean your heads together: Think about how annoying it is when someone you dont know well pats you on the head. That's because you're biologically wired to protect your noggin and you dont want just anyone getting close to it. Touching heads together is one of the best indicators that a love relationship is real. It shows trust because we're making one of our most guarded body parts vulnerable to the other person.
* He walks in-sync with your stride: Strolling down the street together, arm in arm, signals a harmony between you. When you walk together with your arms linked around each other's waist, it can indicate that you're not just lovers but good friends too. This is your way of facing the world as a united pair. And as an added bonus, you're not only comfortable in the relationship, you also possess real trust.
* You dress alike on weekends: Next time you run errands together or meet friends for lunch on the weekend. We're not talking exact matching here like old couples with twin khakis and fanny packs. It could be as subtle as both of you putting on baseball caps and sneakers. Subconsciously picking up each other's style is a couple's way of communicating that they're a unit, to each other and to the rest of the world. When a couple does this, it's a physical sign that they're converging. It hints that you'll be equally game to adopt each other's more personal penchants, whether its as minor as food , music, and clothes or as monumental as your life goals.
* He kisses your forehead: A true romantic, this sensitive dude will not only whip up a dinner for you (served by candlelight), he'll ask about your day while he's at it.
* He sweeps a strand of hair out of your face while gazing into your eyes: When this is done in public, it's a declaration of your togeterness. In private , it's a way to say silently, ''I want to take care of you.'' Ditto when you run your digits through his strands. Why? This affectionate move stems back to evolution. Many primates care for each others by tending to each other's fur, so stroking your lover's locks is an instintual way to show fondness.
* He gives you big hugs: This cuddler is a take-charge man who is focused on pampering and protecting. He'll look after you in whatever way he can, whether it's stepping in to handle a stressful situation or just being a shoulder to cry on. Equally as dominating between the sheets, he may not let you pick the position. Still, your pleasure is his number one priority, since that's taking care of you in a different but important way.
* He mirrors your movements: Zero in on the gestures you make when you and your guy are together. It may seem like coincidence, but if the second you cross your legs or reach upward to stretch, he does too, it means you're totally in sync. It's a way of showing that you're like-minded, which gives you the warm feeling of safety and security that's an important aspect of love.
* You watch each other walk away: When long-term couples still gaze at each other as they part ways, it shows they're beyond enamored because they dont take each other for granted, and they even feel a sexy sense of separation anxiety. A lingering glance indicates that you want to relish and extend the connection. It's as if you're trying to make a mental snapshot of each other until the next time you see that person. You know you're probably going to cross paths again in a couple hours or minutes, but you're still counting down the seconds until you can be together.
* He bear-hugs you good-bye: A guy who frequently says good-bye with a bear hug is comfortable with showing you the love. He's confident about the relationship and his future with you. A total-body squeeze is his subconscious way of letting you know he's committed. Another bonus: he probably tells you often how he feels.
* He pinches your butt: Couples who use this flirtatiuos move know how to get each other's attention in a sexy way. It's a spontaneous, playful gesture that says, ''hey, remember me?'' The teasing aspect of this tweak shows confidence in the other's feelings not only are you both secure enough to boldly ask for little sugar when you want it, but you're also positive that your lusty request will be fulfilled.
* You sit superclose in social settings: Quickclose your eyes and envision how you and your guy sit when you're not with friends. If you always sit side by side, you are each other's support system. Anthropologically, it goes back to battle behavior, where you want your comrade by your side to face the enemy. That isn't to say you're not tight with your pals; it just shows that you feel tighter with your man. Plus, the body contact you make (touching elbows and thighs) is a way of staying bonded.
* He does the cup 'n' smooch: Cupping your partner's face in your hands is a sign of strong feelings. Its not something you decide to do; it just happens with an outpouring of emotion. Often experienced in private, this sexy smooch style is an ultraromantic way to connect and tune out the world.
* You're happy to lean your heads together: Think about how annoying it is when someone you dont know well pats you on the head. That's because you're biologically wired to protect your noggin and you dont want just anyone getting close to it. Touching heads together is one of the best indicators that a love relationship is real. It shows trust because we're making one of our most guarded body parts vulnerable to the other person.
* He walks in-sync with your stride: Strolling down the street together, arm in arm, signals a harmony between you. When you walk together with your arms linked around each other's waist, it can indicate that you're not just lovers but good friends too. This is your way of facing the world as a united pair. And as an added bonus, you're not only comfortable in the relationship, you also possess real trust.
* You dress alike on weekends: Next time you run errands together or meet friends for lunch on the weekend. We're not talking exact matching here like old couples with twin khakis and fanny packs. It could be as subtle as both of you putting on baseball caps and sneakers. Subconsciously picking up each other's style is a couple's way of communicating that they're a unit, to each other and to the rest of the world. When a couple does this, it's a physical sign that they're converging. It hints that you'll be equally game to adopt each other's more personal penchants, whether its as minor as food , music, and clothes or as monumental as your life goals.
* He kisses your forehead: A true romantic, this sensitive dude will not only whip up a dinner for you (served by candlelight), he'll ask about your day while he's at it.
Wednesday, March 5, 2008
Body language decoder part II
At dating:
* He talks with his hands: A guy who frequently gestures with his hands while speaking is a very good communicator. Between the sheets, this expressive hottie will be attentive and generous.
* He has a big, broad expression, often with everything showing teeth, gums...cavities: Consider it the ''wow, you give me the butterflies. I'm head over heels' smile.'' If it's accompanied by a hearty laugh, look out. If he were any more into you, he might drop down on one knee.
* He sits on his hands: If a guy is sitting on his mitts, he's trying to control what's going out of his mouth. But this is more about no wanting to screw up than it is about withholding information. He's worried that he's going to do something that will displease you he wants to put his best foot forward so he's disciplining himself.
* He says good-bye by planting one on you: If you and your guy regularly part with a lengthy lip-lock, then damn your lucky! A man with good-bye MO is incredibly passionate and highly erotic.
* His touch is firm: Stronger contact from your lust charge cutie usually means he has one thing on his mind. And if he's a constant groper, he's insatiable. He's up for sex anywhere, anytime.
* He says good bye with a soft peck: If 9 times out of 10 he plants a soft, tender kiss on your cheek, then your beau is a sensitive type. This is a paternal gesture that shows he wants to take care of you.
* He slouches his shoulder: When a man finds a woman's actions to be adorable or sweet, he gets the urge to hold her. As a result, his shoulders automatically round off as though he's about to take her into his arms. So does this mean you've suddenly lost all sex appeal? Not necessarily. The shoulder slump does indicate attraction, but even better, with a serious emotional undercurrent. So in the case of the long term lover, his shoulder roll is likely a sign that one of your quirks has tugged on his heartstrings. And if a brand new dude pulls that move, chances are he's feeling a true connection to you. So forget all the flirting formalities and be real with him this lad's looking to go deeper.
* He laughs easily: The guy is relaxed and able to be himself with you. ''He's letting his guard down and comfortably expressing his emotions, which a man usually does when he's thinking long term''.
* He licks his lips: A man in lust will literally look like he's hungry, because on a carnal level, that's juice piece of fruit or for sex. So if you catch doing these lip moves while he's looking at you, chances are good that you wet his erotic appetite.
* He strokes your head or back: For this touchy-feely guy, sex and love go hand in hand. That's why he uses a sensuous stroke to let you know he cares. He will take his time in bed with you and constantly suggest new ways to mix up your routine. His zelt for novelty extend to his daily life as well-- he's always looking for opportunities to excite his senses. So keep him on his toes by taking him on a suprise weekend trip or introducing him to an exotic cuisine.
* He touches the small of your back, your upper thigh, or your sides: If a guy is sensually aroused, he'll touch these sensual, sensitive areas, not even bothering with the gradual buildup, like holding your hand or stroking your arm.
* He strokes his stomach: A midriff massager graves the spotlight and need steady verbal reminders of what an absolute catch you think he is. However, when it comes to throwing fond feelings your way, this tongue tied cutie is much action than words. But if you want him to shower you with the affection he's capable of, you'll have to stroke his ego as often as he strokes himself.
* He proudly holds your hand in public: He wants to show the world that you're his. That indicates that he's the type who craves a close partnership.
* He's a combo hug and kisser: It'll be a wild ride with this up-for-anything-boy! Men who do hug and kiss combos crave variety and excitement. He's full of surprises, both in and out of bed, and he needs a woman who can keep up.
* His kiss is long and lusty: ''A full blown smooch that last more than 10 seconds shows that he had sex with you on his brain all day''. The sack sessions are bound to be intense.
* He extends his palm: When a guy offers his palm to you face up, you know hands down he's hooked. He's literally and figuratively reaching out to the person he's speaking with in an attempt to connect on a deeper emotional level. Even cooler: Our brains respond to hand gestures with heightened alertness (we have a special region that processes only hand shapes), so you'll actually fell the love.
* He leans in close: A dude who wants to get intimate will often invade your personal space. In normal interactions, men position themselves a foot and a half to 2 feet away. But a guy who has sex with you on the brain will stand less than an arm's length from you or closer because he's trying to connect physically and create intimacy.
* He talks with his hands: A guy who frequently gestures with his hands while speaking is a very good communicator. Between the sheets, this expressive hottie will be attentive and generous.
* He has a big, broad expression, often with everything showing teeth, gums...cavities: Consider it the ''wow, you give me the butterflies. I'm head over heels' smile.'' If it's accompanied by a hearty laugh, look out. If he were any more into you, he might drop down on one knee.
* He sits on his hands: If a guy is sitting on his mitts, he's trying to control what's going out of his mouth. But this is more about no wanting to screw up than it is about withholding information. He's worried that he's going to do something that will displease you he wants to put his best foot forward so he's disciplining himself.
* He says good-bye by planting one on you: If you and your guy regularly part with a lengthy lip-lock, then damn your lucky! A man with good-bye MO is incredibly passionate and highly erotic.
* His touch is firm: Stronger contact from your lust charge cutie usually means he has one thing on his mind. And if he's a constant groper, he's insatiable. He's up for sex anywhere, anytime.
* He says good bye with a soft peck: If 9 times out of 10 he plants a soft, tender kiss on your cheek, then your beau is a sensitive type. This is a paternal gesture that shows he wants to take care of you.
* He slouches his shoulder: When a man finds a woman's actions to be adorable or sweet, he gets the urge to hold her. As a result, his shoulders automatically round off as though he's about to take her into his arms. So does this mean you've suddenly lost all sex appeal? Not necessarily. The shoulder slump does indicate attraction, but even better, with a serious emotional undercurrent. So in the case of the long term lover, his shoulder roll is likely a sign that one of your quirks has tugged on his heartstrings. And if a brand new dude pulls that move, chances are he's feeling a true connection to you. So forget all the flirting formalities and be real with him this lad's looking to go deeper.
* He laughs easily: The guy is relaxed and able to be himself with you. ''He's letting his guard down and comfortably expressing his emotions, which a man usually does when he's thinking long term''.
* He licks his lips: A man in lust will literally look like he's hungry, because on a carnal level, that's juice piece of fruit or for sex. So if you catch doing these lip moves while he's looking at you, chances are good that you wet his erotic appetite.
* He strokes your head or back: For this touchy-feely guy, sex and love go hand in hand. That's why he uses a sensuous stroke to let you know he cares. He will take his time in bed with you and constantly suggest new ways to mix up your routine. His zelt for novelty extend to his daily life as well-- he's always looking for opportunities to excite his senses. So keep him on his toes by taking him on a suprise weekend trip or introducing him to an exotic cuisine.
* He touches the small of your back, your upper thigh, or your sides: If a guy is sensually aroused, he'll touch these sensual, sensitive areas, not even bothering with the gradual buildup, like holding your hand or stroking your arm.
* He strokes his stomach: A midriff massager graves the spotlight and need steady verbal reminders of what an absolute catch you think he is. However, when it comes to throwing fond feelings your way, this tongue tied cutie is much action than words. But if you want him to shower you with the affection he's capable of, you'll have to stroke his ego as often as he strokes himself.
* He proudly holds your hand in public: He wants to show the world that you're his. That indicates that he's the type who craves a close partnership.
* He's a combo hug and kisser: It'll be a wild ride with this up-for-anything-boy! Men who do hug and kiss combos crave variety and excitement. He's full of surprises, both in and out of bed, and he needs a woman who can keep up.
* His kiss is long and lusty: ''A full blown smooch that last more than 10 seconds shows that he had sex with you on his brain all day''. The sack sessions are bound to be intense.
* He extends his palm: When a guy offers his palm to you face up, you know hands down he's hooked. He's literally and figuratively reaching out to the person he's speaking with in an attempt to connect on a deeper emotional level. Even cooler: Our brains respond to hand gestures with heightened alertness (we have a special region that processes only hand shapes), so you'll actually fell the love.
* He leans in close: A dude who wants to get intimate will often invade your personal space. In normal interactions, men position themselves a foot and a half to 2 feet away. But a guy who has sex with you on the brain will stand less than an arm's length from you or closer because he's trying to connect physically and create intimacy.
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Body language decoder part I
Ive found these useful informations about the body language that you should know:
Whether you've just met your man or are long-term loves, this guide deciphers the meanings behind his actions.
At first meeting:
* He touches his belt or jeans pocket: If he touches his belt, hang his thumb off a front pocket, or even scratches himself down there, you may need to hose him down. He's subconsciously trying to draw your attention to his ahem, assets.
* He stands with his legs spread apart: A guy will often stand with his legs spread apart and pelvis facing you when he's hot for you. It's a primal biological instinct, and most guys they dont even know they doing it.
*He has a coy close-mouth grin that shows only at the corners of his upturned mouth: Rest assured he like you, but he doesnt want to reveal too much too soon. He's probably a bit shy (and possibly insecure) so he wont put all of his emotions on the line right away.
* He lift his eyebrows: When a man sees someone he's into, he'll automaticaly lift and lower his eyebrows, wrinkling his forehead in the process. But you have to keep your eyes peeled to catch a glimpse of this telltale signal. Anthropologists call it the eyebrow flash because its usually lightning quick.
* He half smiles: There's a good chance this guy just wants a no-strings fling. A sneerlike grin is an indication that he's not being sincere with you. It's a split face gesture: each side of his face is telling a different story.
* He smiles with his top lip stretched wide and his front teeth are just barely peeking through: This tight lipped look is a polite signal that while he enjoys your company, the romantic spark may not be there. But that doesnt mean his feelings cant develop.
* He hold a long piercing gaze: Although you may think he's smitten, he could be playing with you. Holding intense eye contact for more than 5 seconds doesnt happen naturally, so he may be using the look as a seduction technique to get you into bed.
* He tilts his head slightly to the side when your eyes meet: The head tilt is a subconscious come-hither signal to any femme the guy has feelings for. So if that man you've been making eyes with for the last hour gives you the head tilt, that's your cue to go in for the kill and introduce yourself or even send him a drink.
* He positions his chest and shoulders towards you, even though he may be looking at something else: Whether its you, your best friend, or the keg in the corner, whatever the boy aims his upper body at is the most meaningful thing in the room to him. So if one night, a tasty man-morsel approaches your posse, you and your friends wont need to fight for the fella's affections; study his body language and you'll already know who he's after.
* He has a devilish smirk where he raises the right or the left side of his closed mouth: You'll have to play hard to get with this boy if you want to hook him. A guy with a grin like this thrives when presented with a bit of challenge. Catch him if you can.
* He stands or sits with his toes pointed toward each other: This means he's feelings a little unsure of himself. So if a boy at the bar is striking this pose, he's digging you but need reassurance that the interest is mutual.
Whether you've just met your man or are long-term loves, this guide deciphers the meanings behind his actions.
At first meeting:
* He touches his belt or jeans pocket: If he touches his belt, hang his thumb off a front pocket, or even scratches himself down there, you may need to hose him down. He's subconsciously trying to draw your attention to his ahem, assets.
* He stands with his legs spread apart: A guy will often stand with his legs spread apart and pelvis facing you when he's hot for you. It's a primal biological instinct, and most guys they dont even know they doing it.
*He has a coy close-mouth grin that shows only at the corners of his upturned mouth: Rest assured he like you, but he doesnt want to reveal too much too soon. He's probably a bit shy (and possibly insecure) so he wont put all of his emotions on the line right away.
* He lift his eyebrows: When a man sees someone he's into, he'll automaticaly lift and lower his eyebrows, wrinkling his forehead in the process. But you have to keep your eyes peeled to catch a glimpse of this telltale signal. Anthropologists call it the eyebrow flash because its usually lightning quick.
* He half smiles: There's a good chance this guy just wants a no-strings fling. A sneerlike grin is an indication that he's not being sincere with you. It's a split face gesture: each side of his face is telling a different story.
* He smiles with his top lip stretched wide and his front teeth are just barely peeking through: This tight lipped look is a polite signal that while he enjoys your company, the romantic spark may not be there. But that doesnt mean his feelings cant develop.
* He hold a long piercing gaze: Although you may think he's smitten, he could be playing with you. Holding intense eye contact for more than 5 seconds doesnt happen naturally, so he may be using the look as a seduction technique to get you into bed.
* He tilts his head slightly to the side when your eyes meet: The head tilt is a subconscious come-hither signal to any femme the guy has feelings for. So if that man you've been making eyes with for the last hour gives you the head tilt, that's your cue to go in for the kill and introduce yourself or even send him a drink.
* He positions his chest and shoulders towards you, even though he may be looking at something else: Whether its you, your best friend, or the keg in the corner, whatever the boy aims his upper body at is the most meaningful thing in the room to him. So if one night, a tasty man-morsel approaches your posse, you and your friends wont need to fight for the fella's affections; study his body language and you'll already know who he's after.
* He has a devilish smirk where he raises the right or the left side of his closed mouth: You'll have to play hard to get with this boy if you want to hook him. A guy with a grin like this thrives when presented with a bit of challenge. Catch him if you can.
* He stands or sits with his toes pointed toward each other: This means he's feelings a little unsure of himself. So if a boy at the bar is striking this pose, he's digging you but need reassurance that the interest is mutual.
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