body language decoder part III

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* He sweeps a strand of hair out of your face while gazing into your eyes: When this is done in public, it's a declaration of your togeterness. In private , it's a way to say silently, ''I want to take care of you.'' Ditto when you run your digits through his strands. Why? This affectionate move stems back to evolution. Many primates care for each others by tending to each other's fur, so stroking your lover's locks is an instintual way to show fondness.

* He gives you big hugs: This cuddler is a take-charge man who is focused on pampering and protecting. He'll look after you in whatever way he can, whether it's stepping in to handle a stressful situation or just being a shoulder to cry on. Equally as dominating between the sheets, he may not let you pick the position. Still, your pleasure is his number one priority, since that's taking care of you in a different but important way.

* He mirrors your movements: Zero in on the gestures you make when you and your guy are together. It may seem like coincidence, but if the second you cross your legs or reach upward to stretch, he does too, it means you're totally in sync. It's a way of showing that you're like-minded, which gives you the warm feeling of safety and security that's an important aspect of love.

* You watch each other walk away: When long-term couples still gaze at each other as they part ways, it shows they're beyond enamored because they dont take each other for granted, and they even feel a sexy sense of separation anxiety. A lingering glance indicates that you want to relish and extend the connection. It's as if you're trying to make a mental snapshot of each other until the next time you see that person. You know you're probably going to cross paths again in a couple hours or minutes, but you're still counting down the seconds until you can be together.

* He bear-hugs you good-bye: A guy who frequently says good-bye with a bear hug is comfortable with showing you the love. He's confident about the relationship and his future with you. A total-body squeeze is his subconscious way of letting you know he's committed. Another bonus: he probably tells you often how he feels.

* He pinches your butt: Couples who use this flirtatiuos move know how to get each other's attention in a sexy way. It's a spontaneous, playful gesture that says, ''hey, remember me?'' The teasing aspect of this tweak shows confidence in the other's feelings not only are you both secure enough to boldly ask for little sugar when you want it, but you're also positive that your lusty request will be fulfilled.

* You sit superclose in social settings: Quickclose your eyes and envision how you and your guy sit when you're not with friends. If you always sit side by side, you are each other's support system. Anthropologically, it goes back to battle behavior, where you want your comrade by your side to face the enemy. That isn't to say you're not tight with your pals; it just shows that you feel tighter with your man. Plus, the body contact you make (touching elbows and thighs) is a way of staying bonded.

* He does the cup 'n' smooch: Cupping your partner's face in your hands is a sign of strong feelings. Its not something you decide to do; it just happens with an outpouring of emotion. Often experienced in private, this sexy smooch style is an ultraromantic way to connect and tune out the world.

* You're happy to lean your heads together: Think about how annoying it is when someone you dont know well pats you on the head. That's because you're biologically wired to protect your noggin and you dont want just anyone getting close to it. Touching heads together is one of the best indicators that a love relationship is real. It shows trust because we're making one of our most guarded body parts vulnerable to the other person.

* He walks in-sync with your stride: Strolling down the street together, arm in arm, signals a harmony between you. When you walk together with your arms linked around each other's waist, it can indicate that you're not just lovers but good friends too. This is your way of facing the world as a united pair. And as an added bonus, you're not only comfortable in the relationship, you also possess real trust.

* You dress alike on weekends: Next time you run errands together or meet friends for lunch on the weekend. We're not talking exact matching here like old couples with twin khakis and fanny packs. It could be as subtle as both of you putting on baseball caps and sneakers. Subconsciously picking up each other's style is a couple's way of communicating that they're a unit, to each other and to the rest of the world. When a couple does this, it's a physical sign that they're converging. It hints that you'll be equally game to adopt each other's more personal penchants, whether its as minor as food , music, and clothes or as monumental as your life goals.

* He kisses your forehead: A true romantic, this sensitive dude will not only whip up a dinner for you (served by candlelight), he'll ask about your day while he's at it.