Body language decoder part II

At dating:

* He talks with his hands: A guy who frequently gestures with his hands while speaking is a very good communicator. Between the sheets, this expressive hottie will be attentive and generous.

* He has a big, broad expression, often with everything showing teeth, gums...cavities: Consider it the ''wow, you give me the butterflies. I'm head over heels' smile.'' If it's accompanied by a hearty laugh, look out. If he were any more into you, he might drop down on one knee.

* He sits on his hands: If a guy is sitting on his mitts, he's trying to control what's going out of his mouth. But this is more about no wanting to screw up than it is about withholding information. He's worried that he's going to do something that will displease you he wants to put his best foot forward so he's disciplining himself.

* He says good-bye by planting one on you: If you and your guy regularly part with a lengthy lip-lock, then damn your lucky! A man with good-bye MO is incredibly passionate and highly erotic.

* His touch is firm: Stronger contact from your lust charge cutie usually means he has one thing on his mind. And if he's a constant groper, he's insatiable. He's up for sex anywhere, anytime.

* He says good bye with a soft peck: If 9 times out of 10 he plants a soft, tender kiss on your cheek, then your beau is a sensitive type. This is a paternal gesture that shows he wants to take care of you.

* He slouches his shoulder: When a man finds a woman's actions to be adorable or sweet, he gets the urge to hold her. As a result, his shoulders automatically round off as though he's about to take her into his arms. So does this mean you've suddenly lost all sex appeal? Not necessarily. The shoulder slump does indicate attraction, but even better, with a serious emotional undercurrent. So in the case of the long term lover, his shoulder roll is likely a sign that one of your quirks has tugged on his heartstrings. And if a brand new dude pulls that move, chances are he's feeling a true connection to you. So forget all the flirting formalities and be real with him this lad's looking to go deeper.

* He laughs easily: The guy is relaxed and able to be himself with you. ''He's letting his guard down and comfortably expressing his emotions, which a man usually does when he's thinking long term''.

* He licks his lips: A man in lust will literally look like he's hungry, because on a carnal level, that's juice piece of fruit or for sex. So if you catch doing these lip moves while he's looking at you, chances are good that you wet his erotic appetite.

* He strokes your head or back: For this touchy-feely guy, sex and love go hand in hand. That's why he uses a sensuous stroke to let you know he cares. He will take his time in bed with you and constantly suggest new ways to mix up your routine. His zelt for novelty extend to his daily life as well-- he's always looking for opportunities to excite his senses. So keep him on his toes by taking him on a suprise weekend trip or introducing him to an exotic cuisine.

* He touches the small of your back, your upper thigh, or your sides: If a guy is sensually aroused, he'll touch these sensual, sensitive areas, not even bothering with the gradual buildup, like holding your hand or stroking your arm.

* He strokes his stomach: A midriff massager graves the spotlight and need steady verbal reminders of what an absolute catch you think he is. However, when it comes to throwing fond feelings your way, this tongue tied cutie is much action than words. But if you want him to shower you with the affection he's capable of, you'll have to stroke his ego as often as he strokes himself.

* He proudly holds your hand in public: He wants to show the world that you're his. That indicates that he's the type who craves a close partnership.

* He's a combo hug and kisser: It'll be a wild ride with this up-for-anything-boy! Men who do hug and kiss combos crave variety and excitement. He's full of surprises, both in and out of bed, and he needs a woman who can keep up.

* His kiss is long and lusty: ''A full blown smooch that last more than 10 seconds shows that he had sex with you on his brain all day''. The sack sessions are bound to be intense.

* He extends his palm: When a guy offers his palm to you face up, you know hands down he's hooked. He's literally and figuratively reaching out to the person he's speaking with in an attempt to connect on a deeper emotional level. Even cooler: Our brains respond to hand gestures with heightened alertness (we have a special region that processes only hand shapes), so you'll actually fell the love.

* He leans in close: A dude who wants to get intimate will often invade your personal space. In normal interactions, men position themselves a foot and a half to 2 feet away. But a guy who has sex with you on the brain will stand less than an arm's length from you or closer because he's trying to connect physically and create intimacy.